The widely respected lead guitarist for The Grams (2006 and 2007 SDMA winners in the “Best Americana or Country” category) died yesterday from injuries suffered in an apparent car accident in North County.
According to a brief news blurb in the U-T, witnesses estimated Yerkes’ car was traveling around 100 mph when it veered off Camino del Rey in Bonsall (north of Vista) and struck a tree head-on. Yerkes was 40.
The Grams had been scheduled to play three different shows at the San Diego County Fair this week (including one today on the Showcase Stage). Look for more extensive coverage on the legacy Yerkes leaves behind in the upcoming issue of CityBeat.
June 29, 2008 - 1:49 pm at 1:49 pm
He will be sorely missed. He was both a great person and a talented musician. My heart goes out to his boys and Elise. I wish them strength to suffer through their loss.
June 29, 2008 - 4:00 pm at 4:00 pm
I miss you Dad. I love you so much!
June 29, 2008 - 8:44 pm at 8:44 pm
Craig set us up on a “blind”date 21 yrs ago. We are forever grateful for the roll he played in our lives. Our prayers for his loved ones will continue in the days,weeks,months and years ahead.
June 29, 2008 - 9:27 pm at 9:27 pm
You are all in my prayers. Find strength in the Lord for he will be with you in your times of trouble.
June 29, 2008 - 11:31 pm at 11:31 pm
To Craig – What an extraordinary human being you…I can’t bring myself to type the past tense of “are”…you blessed everyone you met. In the tiny amounts of time we got to be around you, we were deeply moved by your kindness, praise, warmth, enthusiasm and joy. Every memory I have of you is one of you either smiling or playing music. Thank You for being our Friend. To Elise, we are praying for you and sending you love in great gobs, dear sister. Please call on us, when you can, as you need to. Love, Love, Love.
June 30, 2008 - 7:01 am at 7:01 am
We all mourn with you, the family & friends, of Craig. Rest assured, God can and will bless you with the strength to continue making music once again; carrying on the beautiful music Craig enjoyed so much.
June 30, 2008 - 7:10 am at 7:10 am
Craig – What i would not give for more time, my friend.
He’s sorely missed. My deepest sympathies to Elise and the boys. If there is some way I can help – just let me know. I am so sorry, Brent. He was a very good man.
June 30, 2008 - 7:41 am at 7:41 am
I will always remember the good humor and character Craig had. It has been an honor to be friends with him since the days of Main Street Magic, back when we were young teenagers, I will always remember the good times we shared, the places we traveled to, especially the fun we had one summer at Raw Hide Ranch summer camp . This loss will affect us all and my deepest condolences to his family.
June 30, 2008 - 7:51 am at 7:51 am
It is so sad that such a beautiful person left our earth. I wish we could have talked more, and I can’t help but feel we could have been there more for Craig…all of us. My heart goes out to those that loved him.
June 30, 2008 - 8:03 am at 8:03 am
Dear Brother, I found you late in life and lost you to early. My heart to the boys and Elise, call if you need anything. To my sister Marcia love and strenght to you and your kids in this time of sorrow. Craig’s smile will be missed.
June 30, 2008 - 8:24 am at 8:24 am
The music community has suffered a great loss, as well as a great friend and sharing person. We love you Craig, you may be gone but not forgotten.
Much love and strength to all the family and so many many friends!
June 30, 2008 - 10:01 am at 10:01 am
This man was a great person as well as the best guitar player in town. We are a poorer world without him.
We miss you already, Craig.
June 30, 2008 - 10:08 am at 10:08 am
My thoughts are with Craig’s family and friends as well as anyone who ever had the honor of meeting Craig. His smile could instantly warm up a room, his musicianship was second to none, and his soul was sweet. He will never be forgotten…
June 30, 2008 - 10:25 am at 10:25 am
I’m deeply saddened that such a beautiful gem of a being is gone from us. My thoughts go out to Elise and the rest of his family. Craig was such a joy to know, always full of praise and smiles, and just emaniated such a warmth. He leaves an unfillable void.
June 30, 2008 - 11:23 am at 11:23 am
I met Craig through my husbands job. I had the pleasure of sitting next to him when I worked there part-time. We had many wonderful conversations and I learned a lot about Craig and what a beautiful person He truly was. He loved his kids. More than anything he loved his boys. He had there pictures on his desk and would tell me all the things they were up too. He loved his wife, Elise. He loved playing in his band “The Grams”, and how excited he was when their album came out. He loved music and was very talented. He would sometimes bring his guitar into the office and play for us. We would sit there memorized by the beautiful songs he would play. He made it look so easy. Have you ever met someone and known that they had a good soul?? Craig had a good soul. He will be truly missed. I’m very sorry for your loss Elise , Craig’s sons and family.
June 30, 2008 - 11:25 am at 11:25 am
I met Craig through my husbands job. I had the pleasure of sitting next to him when I worked there part-time. We had many wonderful conversations and I learned a lot about Craig and what a beautiful person He truly was. He loved his kids. More than anything he loved his boys. He had there pictures on his desk and would tell me all the things they were up too. He loved his wife, Elise. He loved playing in his band “ The Grams”, and how excited he was when their album came out. He loved music and was very talented. He would sometimes bring his guitar into the office and play for us. We would sit there memorized by the beautiful songs he would play. He made it look so easy. Have you ever met someone and known that they had a good soul?? Craig had a good soul. He will be truly missed. I’m very sorry for your loss Elise , Craig’s sons and family.
June 30, 2008 - 11:41 am at 11:41 am
I was on the way to see him play, give him and Elise hugs and be warmer in his smiling presence when I heard the sad news this Saturday. We are all at a huge loss for not having Craig in our lives anymore and my heart is breaking for his family right now. You kids should know that your Dad and I were talking a week ago about how proud he was of you and he was simply beaming.
The pain will never go away but neither will my love for such a great man and incredible musician.
June 30, 2008 - 11:52 am at 11:52 am
Craig, you were a really good man (sometimes too good for your own good) and an absolutely terrific father. We shared a lot of good times and laughs together while working for that terrible Danish man. I will never forget our business trips together to Spain (where I first heard you play guitar …..”he could play a guitar just like ringing a bell…”) and then our trip to Canada where, after about 20 minutes of anquish you finally ordered your “girlie drink” from that super French snotty waiter. I will miss you. My heart goes out to your sons. I wish you peace from all your troubles.
June 30, 2008 - 12:04 pm at 12:04 pm
Heartfelt condolences from Jefferson Jay and the people at Portugalia in Ocean Beach. Hope will carry those who loved Craig most through these darkest days. God bless you.
June 30, 2008 - 12:12 pm at 12:12 pm
TO MY LITTLE BROTHER
CRAIG WILL ALWAYS BE LOVED AND DEEPLY MISSED. MY LOVE TO MOM AND MARCIA AND STEVE. I LOVE YOU ALL. STAY STRONG. THIS WORLD WILL NOT BE THE SAME WITHOUT CRAIG IN IT. WE WILL ALL SEE HIM AGAIN.
June 30, 2008 - 1:40 pm at 1:40 pm
To Craig the most amazing man I have ever met. Be at peace Honey, I love you still and will do forever as will so many others. I just wish you knew that in your life.
To Marcia, my heart goes out to you and your family. Even though it’s hard, remember the good times, Craig would love that.
To the boys, your Dad loved you more than anything and was so proud if you. He didn’t stop talking about you. As much as you miss him, keep that in your minds and keep making him proud,
June 30, 2008 - 3:07 pm at 3:07 pm
I am deeply saddened to learn of the tragic motor vehicle accident that claimed one of the nicest human being I’ve ever met. Craig was warm with all that met him and a great talent on the guitar. He amazed me with his playing at every show.
I am working on a photo tribute to Craig to share with family and friends.
Marcia, Elise and the boys, my prayers are with you.
June 30, 2008 - 4:47 pm at 4:47 pm
Though I only knew Craig through the band and mostly at gigs
where I was doing photography, he always seemed to be truly happy up there, playing music and bringing the emotion out in his playing.
I will always remember the smile and his friendliness to others around him.
June 30, 2008 - 4:57 pm at 4:57 pm
My thoughts are with Craig’s family in this time of need. I heard the Grams recently in Mission Valley. Their excellent vocal harmonies and Craig’s fine guitar work, kept me there for the whole night. He knew how to place his notes in just the right spots.
June 30, 2008 - 5:01 pm at 5:01 pm
I am deeply saddened by the news. I had the privilege of meeting Craig during a trip to San Diego. His kindness and humility made him such a pleasure to be around. I could hardly believe that such a genuine person also played guitar like that! He could have been an arrogant rock star, but he chose to be caring and compassionate to everyone. I always wanted to go back to spend more time with Craig and Elise; I’m sorry that I waited.
My deepest condolences to Craig’s friends and family. My prayers are with you.
June 30, 2008 - 6:52 pm at 6:52 pm
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
June 30, 2008 - 8:45 pm at 8:45 pm
Though I was not a close friend of Craig’s and Elise’s, I always got good vibes from them whenever we met. Craig was always positive and giving. A great guitar player of marked humility (my favorite kind), and a true asset to the local music scene and the world at large. To his wife, kids, Marcia his sister, the rest of his family, and all those who were close to him, my wife Mair and I offer our deepest condolences. The rest of us are sorry not to have gotten to know him better.
June 30, 2008 - 9:13 pm at 9:13 pm
I’m so sorry to all of you who knew and loved him. I only had the pleasure of chatting to Craig a few times at various music events around town but could tell he was a kind and sweet man. I personally will always feel indebted to him for giving me my best ever review. Thanks for all you have added to the world mate. My thoughts are your loved ones.
June 30, 2008 - 9:49 pm at 9:49 pm
My life will never be the same without you. There so many reasons why you were the greatest inspiration to me. I love you so much and I will love you forever.
July 1, 2008 - 12:48 am at 12:48 am
I didn’t know Craig very well, but I crossed paths with him many times over the last few years when I was out shooting music photos, and I liked him quite a lot. He always was smiling and laughing when I saw him, and that always made me smile. On June 14th, my friend Marsi and I made a last-minute decision to accept an invitation from Chuck and Joanna Schiele to go to the house concert The Grams were performing that night in Harbison Canyon, and I’m glad we went, as that wonderful night will be my last memory of Craig. My heart is with Marcia, who I know better than I knew Craig, and to Elise and all your family and friends.
David
July 1, 2008 - 1:49 am at 1:49 am
Craig has left a wonderful legacy. Both in his wonderful family and within our music scene. He was always positive, gracious, witty and a joy to be around. He was one of the finest guitarists I’ve ever seen, yet without ego. His example will be continued. My deepest sympathies for his family and close friends. May you always remember the best of Craig.
July 1, 2008 - 8:12 am at 8:12 am
Craig — The music poured out of you like water from a fountain, I’d just stare at your hands and I couldn’t believe a flesh and blood man could do those things, could ring such terrible beauty from a single note, could dash off a cascading flourish and crash into a still, calm pool of blue, how could a guitar do all that? We’re all gut-punched and emptied out, a little dizzy, a little lost. News like this pulls the floor out from under you and you float through the days and weeks and months ahead, feet trying to find dry land.
I remember going to lunch with you years ago, when we first met, when you found out I taught World Religions and Philosophy and stuff like that. You wanted to talk about God. We ate fish tacos and laughed and pushed open questions and took comfort in the fact that even if your childhood ideology is crumbling around you, Spirit still shines eternally, namelessly, wordlessly, from within the Silence between the notes of the songs of our lives.
These last few days I’ve been driving around playing Vince Gill’s “Go Rest High on That Mountain” really loud and bawling my eyes out. Craig, go rest high on that mountain, son your work on earth is done…
We will live a little deeper for knowing you, we will honor you by honoring what is authentically true in us, we will relinquish fear and move courageously in the direction of our dreams, we will stop waiting for our lives to begin. We will love and live on purpose. Thank you for your light.
July 1, 2008 - 8:14 am at 8:14 am
I met Craig via email before I ever met him in person. He reviewed my CD for the Troubadour, and he was as kind, generous, and supportive as anyone could be. When we finally met, he was as wonderful in person as he was in cyberspace. He was a true example of kindness. May his family and friends find peace in this painful time.
July 1, 2008 - 8:14 am at 8:14 am
We are so saddened to hear of Craig’s passing. He was always such a sweet and truly gentle man. He will be missed by all.
Our thoughts and prayers are with Elise, the boys, and Craig’s extended family during this most difficult time.
July 1, 2008 - 8:19 am at 8:19 am
I only knew Craig from within our music scene
I knew he was a happy man because he was always smiling
a fine guitarist,my thoughts and prayers are with his wife
with Marcia and all their family
July 1, 2008 - 9:03 am at 9:03 am
No words can fully convey the grief and sorrow of this tragic loss. Craig was one the finest people we’ve ever had the honor to know and Elise and he were family to us as well as our dearest friends. He will always be remembered for his quick wit, ready smile, his kindness and his brilliant music. He loved his sons, his wife, his family and friends and they loved him back fiercely. His spirit will live on in each of us who’s lives he touched and we are each better for knowing him.
We love you Craig and you will be in our hearts forever.
Joanna and Chuck
July 1, 2008 - 9:12 am at 9:12 am
I only really got to know Craig recently, but really wish I’d had the chance to spend more time with him; he had such a great personality. Elise – you’re much in our thoughts and prayers.
July 1, 2008 - 9:40 am at 9:40 am
The first time I met Craig he was walking down the street with his guitar. We were in junior high. He continued to be a good friend and an encouragement to me musically. He was always smiling. My deepest sympathies go out to his family.
July 1, 2008 - 9:49 am at 9:49 am
I just can’t believe it. He was so very talented. My friend of 27 years. I will miss him dearly. My heart goes out to his family.
July 1, 2008 - 10:00 am at 10:00 am
There’s a tendency to over-embellish the virtues of the recently departed when eulogizing…but what I want everyone who is reading through these comments to know is, it’s all true!!! Every single word. He really WAS always smiling, he really WAS always nice and compassionate and humorous and clever and innocuously capricious and played a mean guitar (just listen to the two Grams albums). He always asked leading questions that made you feel important (because he really wanted to KNOW your answers). He gave me my most astute press. He was enthusiastic.
This feels absolutely wrong to me. I’m angry at a world that seems to take these people away from us before their time, that won’t make room for these beacons of light, that won’t leave them alone. Too good for this world, Craig was. There shouldn’t be such a thing.
Thanks to everyone else who has left a comment on this page, and to Shy Cloud for posting the blog. It has helped me feel less alone in my grief, and hopefully it has reciprocated this to you as well.
To Craig’s closest relations (hard to define because I think we all felt close to him), and to his family, know that you are constantly in our hearts and thoughts and ready to help in whatever capacity you require.
To Craig…you still seem too alive to me to say goodbye yet…but I will. Peace be with you.
July 1, 2008 - 10:01 am at 10:01 am
This is truly a terrible loss and huge blow to everyone in the San Diego music family. It is nearly impossible to quantify or contain the grief that everyone is feeling. Craig was a remarkable person in every role he had in his life and his spirit will continue to shine beyond it. To Marcia, her children, Craig’s children and all of his family-musical or otherwise, I can only wish that all of the love and support that is being directed at you now can be of some comfort in this very difficult time.
July 1, 2008 - 10:19 am at 10:19 am
Craig was an absolute DELIGHT to be around. I will miss his smiling face, and his kind heart. My heart aches and breaks for Elise, the boys, Marcia Claire, Chuck and Joanna, and all of Craig’s family and all of his MANY, MANY friends. He touched so many people’s lives with his brilliant talent as a musician and with his ability to light up a room with just his presence. He was one of the GREATEST guitar players that I have ever seen and he was also one of the nicest people that I have ever met. He has left everyone wonderful memories, and beautiful music, and for that I’m forever grateful.
TO his boys: Your daddy loved you so. He always told me and my husband how proud he was of you both . I know that you will continue to make him proud too.
My thoughts and prayers go out to everyone during this tragic time, and great loss. May the family and friends find some peace and comfort during this difficult time.
July 1, 2008 - 10:55 am at 10:55 am
Craig,
You will always be the king of hammer-ons and stags to me. You were my friend and brother. An inspiration to me in music, humor, spirituality and comraderie. I’ll miss the randon phone stags and reminescing sessions. The news of your passing was like a kick in the chest. For one of the first times in my life, I was left speachless. Speaking of chests…. I admit that you truly did have more hair than me.
We were all very fortunate to have known you. Rest well, friend. Love and prayers for Elise and the boys and Marcia. God be with you all!
July 1, 2008 - 11:10 am at 11:10 am
Losing Craig has left a huge hole in our lives. Not only was he a fantastic writer for the San Diego Troubadour, he was a gifted musician as well as a wonderful friend, father, brother, husband, and family man. We are all devastated by this terrible, terrible loss. As talented as he was, he was the most humble soul with an infectious smile that lit up the room. We just can’t stop seeing his smiling face in our minds. It will take a long time for us all to heal. He will always be in our hearts.
July 1, 2008 - 12:19 pm at 12:19 pm
Your beautiful, happy soul will forever shine on and inspire everyone who was lucky enough to know and love you. We ache and miss you with such sadness, there are no words…
July 1, 2008 - 1:40 pm at 1:40 pm
The world lost a truly great one in Craig. All my love to Marcia and the rest of his family and friends. You’re all in my heart. As a fellow guitarist, he was such an inspiration to watch. As a person, he was one of the nicest, most positive people I’ve ever met. It was always a joy to see and hang with him. Nothing about this makes sense to me.
Thanks for all you brought to this world, Craig. We’ll never forget your smile, your kindness, your support, your talent, or your genius sense of humor. Go easy brother, we miss you.
July 1, 2008 - 3:16 pm at 3:16 pm
Craig, You are loved more then you ever knew. Every word I’ve read rings true. You were there for me I wish I had been there for you. We miss you desperately.
July 1, 2008 - 3:54 pm at 3:54 pm
I met Craig at Artwalk this year in Little Italy. I felt an immense warmth and kindness from him instantly. Because I’m rather shy, It seemed a rare thing to me at the time to feel such comfort speaking with someone I had just met. Now reading the posts above, I see, that warmth and kindness was certainly not my imagination.
To Craig’s family, friends and fans, I’m saddened for your loss.
July 1, 2008 - 4:30 pm at 4:30 pm
I knew Craig because he was married to my neice, his first wife. I remember how beautiful and perfect their life seemed to be. And they had two beutiful children together. While they were together they loved one another. Their lives went in different directions but the legacy of two beutiful sons will always remain. I didnt really see the musical side of Craig but he was a loving person and good husband and father. Craig I know you are with the lord now and I love you.
July 1, 2008 - 5:14 pm at 5:14 pm
Craig, I was not the friend I should have been or always wanted to be. So many times I started to e-mail, just to say hi to you and Elise, and some stupid, demanding part of life got in the way. Now all I can do is pray that you are at peace and those left behind will find peace and some understanding of this. Your music brought me joy. Watching you and the Grams play has always been special and always left me feeling that I could face tomorrow better and happier for it. I hold your music in my heart.
Elise, Marcia, Chuck, Joanna, all the kids and family and friends — I pray for your recovery from this sorrow. I hold you all in my thoughts and prayers.
July 1, 2008 - 5:16 pm at 5:16 pm
It seems my pseudo-adopted parents, Mike and Dee Wright, once again gave me a great gift of music – and that was when they introduced me to the Grams, at one of the many house shows they held just so their friends and family could revel in the beauty of the Grams music. From that very first listen, I was hooked, and became just one of their many fans. But, what struck me the most – and stayed with me from that point forward – was Craig’s face. I told Dee (and anyone who later saw the Grams with me), “I love Craig’s face. I think it might be my favorite face!”. And what it was, in that face, was what ALL of these previous entries have alluded to – and that is Craig’s kindness. As much as I would delight in their harmonies, Craig’s killer guitar licks or Elise’s dynamics, it was always Craig’s face that most held my attention. The words seem too trite to put down in black and white, but, yes, I am blessed by his friendship and inspired by his goodness, his kindness. And I continue to be indebted to Mike and Dee, C. Dale and all the other musicians who shared in bringing Craig and the Grams to the rest of us. Mike said it best as he was describing them all to me before the first house show, “Oh! And Andi, these are the NICEST people you will ever meet…” To Sweet Elise, Chuck and Joanna and the rest of the Grams family – - – thank you for all the beauty and you are being carried around in my heart – I wish you peace.
July 1, 2008 - 6:26 pm at 6:26 pm
I agree with Simeon. It’s all true. Craig had an amazing warmth to him. He was insanely talented and so very kind. I just can’t believe he’s gone. I can’t believe it. I am so deeply saddened. My heart goes out to his family.
July 1, 2008 - 6:34 pm at 6:34 pm
I had the greatest opportunity of my life to play with Craig in the Classic Rock cover band Balance. I remember his warm smile as I looked across the stage, he was a deeply honest soul whose untimely departure will leave a large hole in the universe. My thoughts and prayers go to his family.
July 1, 2008 - 7:37 pm at 7:37 pm
I met Craig a couple years ago through the Troub. You think that time is forever, but now I regret the loss of my getting to know him better. My heart goes out to Elise, Marcia, Craig’s children and all of his close friends and family. This loss is impossible. Love to all.
July 1, 2008 - 7:47 pm at 7:47 pm
As I’m beginning to write, I’m shaken, numb, and in shock. Where do I begin? I’ve known Craig since we were both teenagers, and he was one of my dearest friends, and one of the sweetest, funniest guys around. We used to play in a few bands together in the 1980’s, and he was one of the most amazing guitar players I’d ever seen. In fact, when he was just 15 years old, Guitar Player magazine published an article about him. We had some great times together, and when we were off stage, we laughed until tears came to our eyes. Sadly now, the tears are in my eyes for another reason.
I’ve been thinking about him all day (needless to say), and some of the things he said and did brought laughter to me again. I’m just sorry he won’t be here to share the smiles. I hope he’s somewhere cracking up with me, and playing his guitar – perhaps out amongst the stars in the sky.
I still can’t believe it.
Sadly…
- Rolly
July 1, 2008 - 9:26 pm at 9:26 pm
I had the pleasure of knowing Craig through Elise. Elise and I used to work together and she is one of my girls. I had the honor of Craig and Elise playing the music at my wedding ceremony. I will never forget that, and now that means even more to me. I also had the pleasure of attending their wedding in NY, and I knew that these two were meant for each other. They are a wonderful family and I know that the boys meant the world to them. We will mis you Craig. I know that you will continue play your sweet music for us in our hearts.
July 1, 2008 - 10:15 pm at 10:15 pm
How lucky was I to be asked by the Craigness, himself, to become a member of The Grams and get to stand on stage with him (and Chuck and Sweet Elise)! Here’s what it was like: I can’t remember how many times Chuck and I would look at each other and just start laughing after hearing Craig blow us away AGAIN with some out-of-this-world solo or lick. Yet, what I will remember and miss the most were the times during EVERY set when Craig would turn around and throw me a smile mid-song for no particular reason at all.
But more importantly, beyond the music and off the stage, how lucky were we to become such close friends with Craig and Sweet Elise? Everything said above about Craig IS true. Craig was an incredible, inspirational person. And we are definitely better people for knowing him. We love you Craig. And all of our love to his boys, and family. And we love you Elise – we are always here for you.
July 2, 2008 - 7:05 am at 7:05 am
It has been 28 years since I last saw my childhood friend. We shared classes, laughs, and good times through most of elementary school. I have fond memories of warm afternoons; riding our bikes in the dirt lots behind our houses or sitting in Craig’s room listening to music and looking through record albums. Craig awed my brother and me with his extensive Rock n Roll knowledge. He gave my brother his first KISS album and created a fan. After the age of 12 our paths did not cross again but the memory of Craig has not and will not fade. My thoughts and prayers go out to his children, his wife, and the whole family. Rest in Peace Craig.
July 2, 2008 - 7:12 am at 7:12 am
When a horror strikes your life, you don’t turn your computer on unless absolutely necessary. But I had to check some emails and dear Bob linked me to this site, therefore it was too easy; I had to click it.
There are no words to express when your soul gets pulled from your body. I feel selfish in writing that but it’s the truth; he was my soul. We were “that” pair that had their own language, knew what the other one meant with one-word answers, and never ever took each other for granted. I’ve learned that even if you are the type of person that’s wise enough to “cherish every moment you have with your loved ones” that it’s never ever enough; not even close to enough. Doesn’t even scratch the surface.
Lizzie Wann sent me the sweetest text message yesterday. Upon hearing that I was hanging on by a thread, she reminded me that you all are at the other end of that thread and aren’t letting go. Moments like that are when I know I can go on, be strong (enough) and carry on his living memory. Horror is turning to utter, devastating sadness, which makes sleep come. I know Craig wants us all to get some sleep.
It was also interesting to read what Peter Bolland wrote as I have been reflecting on that day that they met for a good talk over fish tacos. I remember it well because I know what it meant to Craig. He was in a very bad place back then and I almost feel like Peter’s words gave me more time with my brother. I knew it then and I know it now.
Can’t write anymore. All your love and prayers are gold to all of us right now.
He always had my back and he will forever have my heart.
July 2, 2008 - 8:33 am at 8:33 am
My little sister was 6 when Craig entered our lives. She adored him, she nicknamed him “Mr.Cake”. She said she would have followed Mr.Cake to the ends of the earth back in those days. He touched countless lives.
My heart and prayers go out to all of you, but especially to Kim Yerkes. May God grant her the strength day in and day out to raise her boys without their father. May we all draw on the strength and peace that only God can grant in this time of senseless tragedy.
July 2, 2008 - 8:33 am at 8:33 am
Craig was a gentleman. His smile welcomed all, his eyes held a quiet wisdom and his fingers held the hands of God. Go in peace. You are missed.
July 2, 2008 - 11:06 am at 11:06 am
Having been friends with Marcia for 30+ years…Craig was always “the little brother” in my eyes…even as a grown man…he was always “Marcia’s little bro” to me. I miss him. I am so sad knowing he’s not here…in the selfish sense. Craig was too good and too young.
July 2, 2008 - 12:35 pm at 12:35 pm
Craig was as fine an example as there has ever been, of how to be a wonderful human being and an excellent musician at the same time. He was a true hero of mine. All the love in my heart goes out to his family and friends.
July 2, 2008 - 1:56 pm at 1:56 pm
Craig will forever be an amazing and most loving person in the hearts and memories of so many. I was so honored to have been in his life during our highschool years. He was like the big brother I never had. Living across the street from him during our highschool days, I would sit listening to him play and sing with his guitar at his house which was amazing and peaceful. He will forever be part of my life and always an inspiration to me, thank you Craig for that. My deepest sympathies to his family, may they find some comfort in the days and years to come, I know it will not be easy but Know that he would want you to be happy, he was just that way. Craig will forever be amazing and missed so deeply. His infectious smile and enormous heart that touched so many throughout his life journey. Forever, in my heart and memory.
“Island Girl” as you used to call me,
Stacie
July 2, 2008 - 1:56 pm at 1:56 pm
You only had to see Craig smile, to know you were with a good soul. I will always remember him as a kind man. A virtue often overlooked these days.
We will miss you Craig, but visit you often in music.
July 2, 2008 - 3:08 pm at 3:08 pm
Craig… how can I be the man when you’re the man?
Jessica my sweet daughter had to break the news to me that hot “dark” Saturday afternoon. She said her uncle Craig won’t be coming home & that the music stopped. I felt drained… emptied out. I wasn’t the man when she told me, I shrunk down to nothing.
You were there for me on those happy family get togethers. You amazed me with your awesome guitar playing. You were there for me in times of trouble. You were my spiritual advisor back then. I leaned on you daily & you gave me support.
The music may have stopped that day but you want it to start back up again. I can’t wait to hear the songs that will be written.
I hurt for Brent, Trevor, Kim, Elise, Marcia, Virginia, Steve, Angel, my kids & all those who know the “Craigness.”
Your boys will continue to amaze & make you proud, because they are a part of you Craig.
Yes… You are the man! The man with talent. The man with heart & soul. The man with a smile. The man with more hair on your body than me. So very much “The Man!”
God bless “The Man & all who morn”
July 2, 2008 - 4:45 pm at 4:45 pm
Dear Marcia and family… you are in my heart, my thoughts and my prayers always…
Even at the age of 13, Craig’s spirit was contagious!! I’ve been drifting back to the old days when we were teenagers and the stories just flood my soul. Craig left an impression me & this earth with his heart, spirit, music & soul… and if you listen you will always hear him. I truely believe that we all will meet again and though hard to understand God is in control. Our hearts will ache,…. we’ll ask why, but his legacy will sprout from everything he has done which only make’s this world more beautiful. I only wish I could have seen him on my the last visit to California – I know now…. don’t put things off, you never know when someone will be going home…. Peace be with you….
With love,
Kristi Mason
July 2, 2008 - 4:54 pm at 4:54 pm
I really do believe, though maybe not in the traditional way, in the Communion of Saints. Craig, you are a real, practical, salt of the earth, down in the dirt SAINT. Simeon’s testimony is so true – all the good things people are saying about you here are the truth. I believe that since we’re all in this communion – which we access through music and friendship – you will never leave us. You now have a different perspective than we do right now – you know that there’s a meaning in all this muck. And you see all of us who love you. But we miss you sorely and this will take a while to sink in.
Thank you, Craig, for blessing my life with your friendship, your smile, your trust, and for being a confidant and an light along this sometimes sorrowful path.
To Elise & Marcia – all my love and support to you.
To all who have commented, thank you for helping me grieve, remember, and be encouraged through your sharing.
July 2, 2008 - 5:17 pm at 5:17 pm
I still remember the conversation that I had with Craig almost 19 years ago when he was living with one of my best friend’s parents. He was so on fire for the Lord and looking to meet a “sweet Christian girl”. I knew instantly that “that girl” was my best friend, Kimmy. They were introduced and fell madly in love. I have never regretted getting them together because through their love, Brent and Trevor were conceived. I was there for both of their births and watched Craig literally jump up and down in excitement as his boys entered this world.
I have not been a part of Craig’s life for the past 8 years and I write this on behalf of Kimmy, Brent and Trevor. Their pain is unmeasurable. I pray that the Lord is glorified through this tragedy and that Craig’s boys grow up knowing and remembering their Daddy’s love and his smile.
Kimmy, you are my forever sister. You are stronger and have shown more love and grace than anyone else in my life. Your boys are beyond fortunate to have you for a mom. The Word that is inscribed in their hearts will be their constant hope. I love you more than words!!
Vic
July 2, 2008 - 10:33 pm at 10:33 pm
Kim,
We love you and support you with our prayers. You are an awesome mom and your deep faith in God will be your strength.
July 3, 2008 - 8:17 am at 8:17 am
I met craig in 2006 around the time he reviewed my cd in the Troubadour. I almost fell over in my chair when I read the amazing words he wrote. We had never met but he wrote me an email, further stating his belief in my potential and the beauty in my songs. I was so taken back by that. He didn’t really know me but took the time to lift my spirit. It is clear Craig bestowed that same gift upon everyone in his life. From there we became friends among the SD music scene like many others and every time I received an email or saw him out and about at a show I was in awe by his beautiful spirit, infectious smile and just a great love he had for music and his friends. It takes a truly special person to be that extraordinary. Elise, the rest of the family, and the Grams, my heart goes out to you! Craig was an amazing person inside and out and that is how he will always be remembered.
July 3, 2008 - 12:21 pm at 12:21 pm
My Sweet Baby Boy, I can’t be there for the funeral. so I leave you this:
Fly, fly little wing
Fly beyond imagining
The softest cloud, the whitest dove
Upon the wind of heaven’s love
Past the planets and the stars
Leave this lonely world of ours
Escape the sorrow and the pain
And fly again
Fly, fly precious one
Your endless Journey has begun
Take your gentle happiness
Far too beautiful for this
Cross over to the other shore
There is peace all one word
But hold this mem’ry bittersweet
Until we meet.
Fly, fly do not fear
Don’t waste a breath, don’t shed a tear
Your heart is pure, your soul is free
Be on your way, don’t wait for me
Above the universe you’ll climb
On beyond the hands of time
The moon will rise, the sun will set
But I won’t forget
Fly, fly little wing
Fly, where only angels sing
Fly away, the time is right
Go now, find the light.
July 3, 2008 - 2:34 pm at 2:34 pm
We are praying for and thinking about Craig’s family, Elise, the boys and Kimmy during this very sad time. We are heartbroken for all of you and for ourselves. I loved Craig so much. We only talked every 6 months or so, but it was always awesome to catch up with him, talk about life, the kids, jobs, etc.
Craig and I shared a dirty little apartment 20 years ago and Craig was the one who set in motion my marriage to beautiful Laurie. He stood up for us in our wedding and wrote an absolutely beautiful song. . . .”If she didn’t have hair like the morning sun. . . .”
Craig was a blast – from jokes and antics to deep conversations about life – all in 10 minutes time. And so creative – just crazy creative – not only musically, but his humor too. Did you ever get the phone message from him? “Yakata, yakata, yakata, yakata. . . .”
We love Craig and we miss him like crazy. . .
Friends of Craig for 25 years. . . .
July 3, 2008 - 2:47 pm at 2:47 pm
Goodbye, Mr. Cake. May your soul find rest and may your smile forever live on in your boys. So many loved you!
July 4, 2008 - 4:56 pm at 4:56 pm
I’ve posted some photos as a tribute to Craig. You may see them here:
http://SteveCovault.com/Yerkes
Please give my condolenses to famil and friends.
–
Steve
July 5, 2008 - 11:46 am at 11:46 am
I remember Craig from when my brother Sean was in Main Street Magic, He was always very kind to me and a total inspiration for rock guitar.He was the first guy I ever saw “shredding” the guitar live.I know he was my brother’s dear friend and always laugh when I remember a time when my brother and some other friends shaved Craig’s hairy chest while he was asleep.I think they were jealous of the chest hair.God bless and comfort Craig’s family.Our prayers are with you.
July 5, 2008 - 7:01 pm at 7:01 pm
BOY! Sadly Looks like this time I get the last stag. Wail on lead guitar my friend!
Peace
July 6, 2008 - 9:59 pm at 9:59 pm
Wow…I can hardly believe what I am reading….Seems like just yesterday Amy and I were having fun at your wedding in Buffalo…….You will certainly be missed our friend…May God keep you until we see you again…..Michael Montes…
July 7, 2008 - 3:33 am at 3:33 am
As a young lad, I always considered Craig one of my very best friends. How many 13 year olds can pull of an Elvis suit with real chest hair? Or Johnny B Good? When I got sidetracked on his hot sister Marcia, Craig played it cool and remained the friend he always was. 20 years later I met Craig again and he looked great. He bragged more about his wife and sister than himself, but I was not at all surprised. Craig was like a pastor; confident but not arrogant, and above all, caring. The last time Craig and I were truly in touch was 25 years ago; it seems like it was just yesterday. Right now my brother I’m listening to NHOP/Joe Pass “Chops”, an album we shared together so long ago. Still sounds like gold…Your Friend, Vinnie Dublino
July 7, 2008 - 12:25 pm at 12:25 pm
Craig,
You and your music will be missed more than you know. I loved your music, your heart, and your smile. I am honored to have known and played with you. My condolences to your family and friends. – BZ
July 7, 2008 - 2:33 pm at 2:33 pm
I was listening to this Jars Of Clay song today (Valley Song), and it really gave me some reassurance.
“While we wait
for our rescue
with our eyes tightly shut,
face to the ground,
using our hands
to cover the fatal cut.
Though the pain is an ocean,
tossing us around around around,
You have calmed greater waters.
Higher mountains have come down.
I will sing of Your mercy
that leads me through valleys of sorrow
to rivers of joy.
yeah ”
We love you Uncle Craig!
July 7, 2008 - 5:17 pm at 5:17 pm
I guess my memories of Craig are forever frozen in the late 80’s and early 90’s. So when I heard the news I peaked in on recent Craig life, still standing the same way when he takes a lead, still smiling that smile that lifts you up, still pouring out all that crazy talent.
I also dug in the garage for some old tapes I have not heard in years. “Christmas ain’t the same” still brings me to tears now more than ever I guess. All those old songs about love and faith and struggle written and performed so effortlessly. Those emotional guitar riffs, always the right note at just the right time, lifting the song up, lifting the listener up.
That is how I remember him, always lifting you up with smiles, jokes, prayers, encouragements and those songs.
July 7, 2008 - 8:32 pm at 8:32 pm
My heart goes out to my very dear friend Kimmy, and the two wonderful boys she and Craig had together…..Brent and Trev—-I cannot imagine what your lives will be like without your father…When I told Benjamin and Oliver about what happened, they got very quiet, sad, and did not want to talk about it…..You 4 boys share much of the same pain, but now, you’ve lost your Dad…I was so happy when we moved into the same community as you…..so much in common…..Mostly, Kimmy, our devotion to our kids! You are the most wonderful of Mom’s and a very, very good person to have endured the heartaches that you were dealt…I love you all! Brent and Trev—-know how lucky you are! It is sad, indeed, that your Dad has passed….You are lucky that you have one of the most amazing women in the world as your own mother!
July 7, 2008 - 11:41 pm at 11:41 pm
Even though I haven’t talked to him in fifteen years, I’m wishing I could have one more conversation with him. He was such a thinker, so smart. I liked talking to him. I don’t know what I would say, just that he’s okay. That God loves us no matter what….
July 8, 2008 - 1:23 pm at 1:23 pm
I met Craig through his partnership in music with my old San Diego State buddy Chuck Schiele.
Like some of the other posters here, I also wish that I’d gotten to know Craig better. I do remember his constant smile and his humor, and I treasure the times I sat in Chuck’s little living room in Ocean Beach, listening to the Grams practice. That inspired me to write this silly little poem:
Band Practice
21 Grams
Jams
In Chuck’s pad. It’s rad.
Two guitars, keyboards and violin
Picking, strumming, chords ring out
Voices merge and soar.
How long, I wonder, trembling in doubt
Until cops come to the door?
Craig’s departure is certainly a huge loss to everyone who knew him, or were lucky enough to cross his path. I hope that Chuck and Elise and Craig’s family are bearing up after this tragic loss.
I didn’t know Craig well, but the hole I feel in my heart is real.
July 8, 2008 - 1:46 pm at 1:46 pm
a light has gone out
i will miss the memories that could have been
3/4 time forever!
July 8, 2008 - 11:31 pm at 11:31 pm
When you meet people for the first time sometimes it can be a little awkward or you feel like you should watch what you say…..not with Craig. The first time I met him was at O’Connell’s at one of the Listen Local nights. We drank vodka martinis and couldn’t stop laughing the whole night….my face never hurt so much. Erica was there with me. After that night I knew I met someone real special. Heck, he kept up with me and my martinis.
He was so talented and just one of the most genuine, kind hearted souls I have ever met. I am so lucky to have known him and so thankful that I have many great memories of such a wonderful person. I can’t see the world without him.
My heart goes out to Marcia, Elise, and all of Craig’s families. I’m so sorry. Just know that where ever he is he’s got a guitar in his hands and he’s smiling.
July 10, 2008 - 5:53 am at 5:53 am
I don’t know why someone who is so good on earth is taken from us so prematurely. I like to believe that God chooses the best from here to help build a better kingdom in heaven for us there.
Here is a quote from a song I just felt I should share when I heard about Craig.
“Who can say when life is over?
The silver cord breaks
and our breath returns to God
Will we walk through fields of clover?
or soar up high
through valleys deep and wide
I can not know all that’s waiting there
but until that day this is my prayer”
May God bless you all who are mourning for Craig. He was an amazing human being and will be dearly, dearly missed.
July 11, 2008 - 4:04 pm at 4:04 pm
My heart goes out to Craig’s family, friends and all who knew him. Even more, I sympathize with those who never had a chance to experience his infectious smile and humble kindness.
Craig joined the San Diego music community and made an immediate and profound impact; first as a fan, then as a performer and writer. His contributions as lead guitarist, vocalist and songwriter for multi-award winning group The Grams and as a columnist for The San Diego Troubadour touch only the surface of a vast and deep well of giving that made the man.
Instantly approachable, openly affable and always the optimist, Craig was truly a friend to be had. He was a great supporter to me and countless other San Diego musicians and he will be missed for a long time to come.
I look forward to celebrating the man on July 27th.
For details; http://www.listenlocalsd.com
July 11, 2008 - 8:22 pm at 8:22 pm
I met Craig when he was 14 years old (still had hair!) and was playing with Main Street Magic. Once we began talking, with his quick wit and great sense of humor, I knew we were destined to be friends forever . . . . and 26 years later, we still were. He was everything a person could want in a friend . . . generous, thoughtful, upbeat, supportive, willing to listen, giving, and asking for nothing in return. He was an amazing man and my world won’t ever be the same without him. Wherever you are looking down on us, know that I will miss you always, my dear friend.
July 12, 2008 - 7:22 am at 7:22 am
There was so much to love in Craig! I’m blessed for having known him the short time that I did. Some good memories… blowing up aliens with him at Dave & Buster’s for Jess’ birthday… playing music with him at the Boat & Ski club… all those witty remarks! Never has sarcasm brightened my days so much! It was a good sarcasm…
here’s my blog entry for him:
http://www.chrisullyott.com/2_BLOG/entries/2008/08-07/2blog_0807-01_craig.htm
we’ll miss you craigness!
July 12, 2008 - 7:40 pm at 7:40 pm
Just reading some new blog entries here, after some more time has gone by. Two weeks, to be exact, and we’re obviously still as devastated and shook up as we were on June 28th. Craig was “that” guy that made you smile just by smiling at you.
I miss so much the “one word explanations” we had. It was a language all it’s own. I’m passing it on to his boys because I think it’s a very humorous legacy and I hope all the cousins keep it up. I mean duh, isn’t having a Secret Language” one of the best things that siblings can share? Again, friends and family, thank you for all your support. The love and strength that you’ve given to me, my mom, Elise, Brent Trevor and my kids is immeasurable. We are so very grateful to all of you. Every prayer, every encouraging word. We couldn’t do it without you.
I just keep looking, over and over, at the photo of Craig, my kids and myself playing at Sven’s birthday party. That was somethin’ indeed.
Oops, I digress … Thanks, Y’all!
July 14, 2008 - 12:44 pm at 12:44 pm
Craig was a truly great guitarist, and always had a huge smile on his face. The audience could tell that he loved what he was doing. It’s a huge loss for the San Diego music community. Our sympathies go out to his family, especially Elise and Marcia.
peace,
Greg & Lois
July 14, 2008 - 12:51 pm at 12:51 pm
I am deeply saddened by this news. Craig was an amazing person and an amazing musician. He left us too soon. He and his family will be in my thoughts and prayers. He is deeply missed.
July 15, 2008 - 12:38 am at 12:38 am
It seems whenever Craig and I had the chance to catch up over the last 20 years he would remind me of the day we met when he says I walked up to him (the new kid in school) and asked if he wanted to play tetherball. I think we were in 6th grade. His recollection would always make me laugh. I will always remember those childhood memories and the special times we shared over the years. Too many years would pass between conversations and yet when we did get the chance to catch up, it was as if no time had passed at all. Craig was an amazing person, one I am glad to have called my friend. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. You will be missed.
July 24, 2008 - 1:27 am at 1:27 am
I heard the news just last week, it was so hard to imagine. I remember the Main Street Magic days- a groupie I was….Those were some great times and Craig was funny and made you want to kiss his whole face! I will be praying for you Virginia and Marcia and for his beautiful family…We will all hold onto our loved ones a little tighter tonight. “Memory is a special place in our hearts where we can find comfort in the treasured thoughts of those we hold dear.” -author unknown.
July 24, 2008 - 7:43 am at 7:43 am
Craig, the last time I saw we were drinking a Marg’ in Murrietta (Sean and I out-Margaritaed your ass by a long shot, for the record). I want to thank you for driving from San Marcos to see me on my visit to California; that meant a lot to me to see you and Marcia together again. You were always willing to take time out of your life to help others – these entries are a testiment to that. Again, condolences to those closest to Craig, especially Marcia and family.
July 27, 2008 - 8:38 am at 8:38 am
Criag and I were childhood friends, but he touched my life in such an incredible way. It has been almost 20 years since we have seen each other, but I can only imagine what an amazing man he became – because he was always such an incredible person. There have been so many times over the years that I have thought of him, and wanted to reach out to find him, but life always got in the way – what a terrible excuse that is! Although Criag hasn’t been actively in my life he has always been a part of my heart, and he will be missed. My heartfelt condolences go out to his family during this tragic time.
August 5, 2008 - 8:59 am at 8:59 am
Dave introduced me to Craig through stories about love, laughter, humility, talent. I never met Craig, but I know now that it is my loss.
My daughter and son unexpectedly lost their father at the end of March this year, so I wanted to leave a special note for Craig’s boys. My kids have told me that if they pay special attention and are not afraid, they can hear their father speaking to them, they can see him smile and laugh when they share their joys, they can feel him wiping their tears when they are sad. Your dad is very much with you, boys. You will never be alone.
My love and condolences to the family. I wish you all peace.
August 5, 2008 - 4:16 pm at 4:16 pm
I too had the honor of knowing Craig. He was such an exceptional talent, along with Vince, Glenn, Nate, etc. It forced me to step up my game to keep up.
He inspired my four-track madness after hearing his “Water Song” (Hey, you can do that? If you have your own studio; yes, you can.)
High School jazz band was like skipping school and sneaking in a jam with your friends everyday after lunch. The pranks we’d pull, like starting a song a 1/2 step up only to have the horns dump in like a load off doo-doo: priceless!!
…Driving the white Rambler with Craig, Vince, Glenn(?) to Disneyland for the annual Jazz Fest. …Craig chasing after Joe Pass for a signature. …Watching Buddy Rich do his thing.
After losing track of him for a decade, I found him again when I needed to buy memory for my iMac. (The owner’s name is Yerkes? How many Yerkes are there? I must contact his guy…) Catching up over In-N-Out dooblay-dooblays reminded me what a good soul this man had. He was in a big transition in his life.
Soon, I lost track of him again, but I’m glad to hear he rediscovered live performing. From what Ive been reading, he returned in a big way. Mozoltov, Boaz!
August 22, 2008 - 3:09 pm at 3:09 pm
I meet him many years ago working for a Danish Memory Company. He really shine as a very special person. I offer to his family my deep condolences. It appears to me more and more that the good people in this planet leave early.
October 25, 2008 - 6:29 pm at 6:29 pm
Oh my dearest brother, I’m thinking of you all the time. I miss you more than I knew I could miss someone. I love you forever.
March 6, 2009 - 4:33 pm at 4:33 pm
I was fortunate enough to know Craig and to work with him and the terrible Danish man. I always admired and looked to him as a solid individual and a sunny spot in a dreary day. I am late to this news and am saddened beyond words. I had always meant to stay in better touch, I always meant to say thank you. I will always regret not having done so. Rarely do we meet someone like Craig in this life. I will always cherish the moments we did spend together. I love you Craig. God Bless you!
April 6, 2009 - 9:53 am at 9:53 am
Happy B Craigness, a glass of fizz shall be drunk in your honour. It still shocks me to the point of immobility that you’re not here, especially when you’re so vividly alive in my head. You’re in my thoughts everyday and I miss you so. xx
June 3, 2009 - 8:45 pm at 8:45 pm
Mr.Craig
you are still missed very much. you will always be in my thoughts and prayers so will your family. GOD BLESS.
June 29, 2009 - 2:58 pm at 2:58 pm
Wow, a year has passed & I’m still having difficulty believing that I won’t run in to him unexpectadely…not a week goes by without my wife & I remembering some Craig moment or statement. Sometimes deeply insightful, sometimes ridiculously absurd, always steeped in “Craigishness”.
September 27, 2009 - 9:20 am at 9:20 am
I just want to say that I love everyone that’s in my life that has made this past year at least tolerable for me and my family. Your email sentiments, your phone calls, your hugs and your love … absolutely couldn’t do without it all. I am a very blessed woman to have such a strong yet gentle support system to rely on. Not everyone has such caring, insightful friends in their life. I love my brother like crazy and miss him even more. Again, just wanted to thank you all for sharing your memories and sentiments here. You’re all wonderful. Hug everyone you see today.